Friday, December 24, 2010
Tuesday, December 14, 2010
One Zero Zero
Can we pretend that airplanes
In the night sky
Are like shooting stars
I could really use a wish right now ..
In the night sky
Are like shooting stars
I could really use a wish right now ..
Saturday, December 04, 2010
Bovine Divination
India is a nation of typecasting. We just love the prejudice in Pride and Prejudice, no matter how much Mr. Darcy's pride might appeal as a well-rounded character, it is always Jane Austen's portrayal of Elizabeth's first impressions we closely identify with. But then again, we're not here to discuss literature. So lets go to something more basic, closer to the world's concept of "Indian-ness" - lets talk about cows.
Kolkata - The land of rosogolla and sondesh, the land of muri and puchka, Kolkata is probably the lone city in India which qualifies to bear any resemblance to the times when the Queen was more than just head of the Commonwealth. With hand-pulled rickshaws, shaky corrugated roofs, and the Victoria Memorial as one of the key attractions, the city holds true to its past. Clubs jumping to the beats of the most successful VJs, Park Street bustling with tourists, and the locale of Gariahat becoming the new shopping haven, the city is embracing the future as well. It is this concoction of tradition and modernism that I witnessed one morning waking up at the break of dawn at my flat in Garcha. Rubbing my eyes to wipe off the remnants of last night's nightmare, I moved to the window for the customary fresh morning breeze I had gotten used to for the past few weeks. As I stood there, eyes shut, rising on my toes, facing skyward, there it came, the tingling of a bell and bellow of an animal. It was the Banerjee's newly wed couple, no am not talking about the cow here. The new bride had come out, wrapped up on the cold morning in an oversized bathrobe as she handed over the vessel to the dhoti-clad man as he bent down, pushed the stool a little closer, placed the vessel on the ground and milked the cow as she happily munched on straw being fed to her by the newest Banerjee. Two hours later as I got out to visit the embassy, there she was young Mrs. Banerjee with a white coat over her arm - a doctor eh! I could not resist my curiosity and had to walk up to her to ask ,the what I knew beforehand, redundant question. You're a doc, why stop the usual Banerjee way of life with senior Banerjee going to Mother Dairy to get pasteurized milk? She just smiled, scrambled my hair, "There is just something very magical about Gao Mata. " So much for expecting reason out of a doctor at least. Next.
Mumbai - Mumbai has outgrown its roots with traditional India faster than any other city, possibly even London. I would half expect to see a cow idling on the road, flicking off flies with its tail at East End, London than Nariman Point, Mumbai. I do not know what brought on the change. It was probably the fast-track life here that eventually got to the general bovine ignorance and lethargy. It just was not worth the effort for the Holy Cow to position herself in the middle of the road in a city which would probably build a new road around her rather than acknowledge her existence there as a temporary nuisance. Such blasphemy, to ignore the creature that dates back to the times of Ramayana and Mahabharata! It is the absence of the cow in Mumbai that gave birth to the idea of this post. Well the absence, and the loony in the train who warned of Armageddon lest we get back the cows we so wrongly banished out of this city. You heard me, a lunatic on the train who ran up and down the entire length of the compartment accusing us of atheism and commanding us all to pay penance. For if we failed to do so, Mumbai would continue to suffer, in the absence of its saviour - the Holy Cow. You heard 'em - its no longer a moo-t point!
Chennai - The cows have no inclination to go down south. They can keep their buffaloes!
Delhi - This city of Djinns has more often than not drawn the ire of people from all over India. Tell them you're from Delhi and they cringe with that disgusted look on their face as if having accidentally regurgitated puke in their mouth. I plead guilty for having been part of the same charade despite being a Delhiite myself, probably more so as a consequence of the stories I'd heard rather than the shortcomings of knowing the city having hardly lived there myself. Irrespective of the reasons, there is a certain sense of antagonism bestowed upon the city dweller's image based more out of their high-handed haughtiness than a miscued representation of their aloofness. I'd much rather associate a "snotty bitch" with the capital city than with any other in the entire country. But am not here for Delhi-bashing. For a change, am not. Despite all its shortcomings, it is here that the true essence of bovine divination manifests itself. From the birthing of a calf at Chandni Chowk rife with shouts of a miracle, to the sprawling slum all over the city and its regular diet of dung cakes slapped on to the walls, Delhi remains true to the holiness of the cow. It is only in the streets of Delhi where, despite our utter disregard for human life with our reckless driving, we make sure the cow stays put and comfortable plop in the middle of the road. In this capital city do the skinny dark men decorate the cows in a vibrant blue and roam the traffic lights clanking their donation bowls pleading to the impatient travelers to spare a rupee for Gaey Mata. Endless windows scroll down, toss a coin, notes at times and scroll up with equal urgency - in a city where women haggle for even the last 50 paise with the vegetable vendor just to have the satisfaction of ending the bargain on their terms! Holy Cow!
Bovine Divination - *chuckles* :P
Kolkata - The land of rosogolla and sondesh, the land of muri and puchka, Kolkata is probably the lone city in India which qualifies to bear any resemblance to the times when the Queen was more than just head of the Commonwealth. With hand-pulled rickshaws, shaky corrugated roofs, and the Victoria Memorial as one of the key attractions, the city holds true to its past. Clubs jumping to the beats of the most successful VJs, Park Street bustling with tourists, and the locale of Gariahat becoming the new shopping haven, the city is embracing the future as well. It is this concoction of tradition and modernism that I witnessed one morning waking up at the break of dawn at my flat in Garcha. Rubbing my eyes to wipe off the remnants of last night's nightmare, I moved to the window for the customary fresh morning breeze I had gotten used to for the past few weeks. As I stood there, eyes shut, rising on my toes, facing skyward, there it came, the tingling of a bell and bellow of an animal. It was the Banerjee's newly wed couple, no am not talking about the cow here. The new bride had come out, wrapped up on the cold morning in an oversized bathrobe as she handed over the vessel to the dhoti-clad man as he bent down, pushed the stool a little closer, placed the vessel on the ground and milked the cow as she happily munched on straw being fed to her by the newest Banerjee. Two hours later as I got out to visit the embassy, there she was young Mrs. Banerjee with a white coat over her arm - a doctor eh! I could not resist my curiosity and had to walk up to her to ask ,the what I knew beforehand, redundant question. You're a doc, why stop the usual Banerjee way of life with senior Banerjee going to Mother Dairy to get pasteurized milk? She just smiled, scrambled my hair, "There is just something very magical about Gao Mata. " So much for expecting reason out of a doctor at least. Next.
Mumbai - Mumbai has outgrown its roots with traditional India faster than any other city, possibly even London. I would half expect to see a cow idling on the road, flicking off flies with its tail at East End, London than Nariman Point, Mumbai. I do not know what brought on the change. It was probably the fast-track life here that eventually got to the general bovine ignorance and lethargy. It just was not worth the effort for the Holy Cow to position herself in the middle of the road in a city which would probably build a new road around her rather than acknowledge her existence there as a temporary nuisance. Such blasphemy, to ignore the creature that dates back to the times of Ramayana and Mahabharata! It is the absence of the cow in Mumbai that gave birth to the idea of this post. Well the absence, and the loony in the train who warned of Armageddon lest we get back the cows we so wrongly banished out of this city. You heard me, a lunatic on the train who ran up and down the entire length of the compartment accusing us of atheism and commanding us all to pay penance. For if we failed to do so, Mumbai would continue to suffer, in the absence of its saviour - the Holy Cow. You heard 'em - its no longer a moo-t point!
Chennai - The cows have no inclination to go down south. They can keep their buffaloes!
Delhi - This city of Djinns has more often than not drawn the ire of people from all over India. Tell them you're from Delhi and they cringe with that disgusted look on their face as if having accidentally regurgitated puke in their mouth. I plead guilty for having been part of the same charade despite being a Delhiite myself, probably more so as a consequence of the stories I'd heard rather than the shortcomings of knowing the city having hardly lived there myself. Irrespective of the reasons, there is a certain sense of antagonism bestowed upon the city dweller's image based more out of their high-handed haughtiness than a miscued representation of their aloofness. I'd much rather associate a "snotty bitch" with the capital city than with any other in the entire country. But am not here for Delhi-bashing. For a change, am not. Despite all its shortcomings, it is here that the true essence of bovine divination manifests itself. From the birthing of a calf at Chandni Chowk rife with shouts of a miracle, to the sprawling slum all over the city and its regular diet of dung cakes slapped on to the walls, Delhi remains true to the holiness of the cow. It is only in the streets of Delhi where, despite our utter disregard for human life with our reckless driving, we make sure the cow stays put and comfortable plop in the middle of the road. In this capital city do the skinny dark men decorate the cows in a vibrant blue and roam the traffic lights clanking their donation bowls pleading to the impatient travelers to spare a rupee for Gaey Mata. Endless windows scroll down, toss a coin, notes at times and scroll up with equal urgency - in a city where women haggle for even the last 50 paise with the vegetable vendor just to have the satisfaction of ending the bargain on their terms! Holy Cow!
Bovine Divination - *chuckles* :P
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
Books. Covers. Judging. And all the racket.
If I were to conduct a search of my blog for the most mis-haps that have happened, the highest hits would come for the "airport". Then if I take it a step further, the next hybrid search would reveal that in most of them women have been the subject of causality or consequence. As a tribute to these two subjects providing me with such considerable volumes to write on, am giving this post precedence over the other ideas brewing up inside my head right now as I sit idle in my defined cubicle for want of nothing better to do.
She seemed like just another pretty face in the crowd, getting attention from most of the 20-something guys hanging around trying to act cool, standing slightly slouched, hands in pockets, talking in some foreign accent better suited for the alley-ways of New York than Indira Gandhi Airport, New Delhi. Neatly dressed in a sober top and skin-hugging jeans, she tip-toed to the boarding gate, the sound of her heels boring down into the sub-conscious like spokes driven through Pinhead in Hellraiser! There was nothing majestic about her yet she carried with her an air of sophistication that made you glance over your shoulder for that fraction of a second longer that divides the "oye hoye" chicks from the "Ay Carumba!" ones. Having a penchant for luck screwing me over, the mere idea of her sitting in the next seat, let alone the same row, seemed a virtual impossibility. I did not let my hopes up just to have them dashed all over again.
As I nestled into my aisle seat, stretching my legs, twisting to the left, to the right, bending forward, to ready myself for the hour long siesta ahead, I got tapped on the shoulder. I looked up. And I kept looking up. It must have been at least a minute's lag between my eyes blinking for the first time since crooning my neck to look up and the brain responding with "Holy Guacamole!!". Impatience was evident on her face. Now don't judge me as some horny perverted arse who drools at any girl that comes his way, but what I could not digest for that one minute was the fact that the Higher Power people brag about actually wanted "her" to sit next to me, ME! The embarrassing moment passed. Feeling ashamed at my immature departure from chivalry, I dug into the in-flight magazine reading up on the latest mango fondue recipe, afraid lest I raise my head and our eyes meet to judge me into nothingness again.
The flight was cleared for take-off and as was customary, I took out my book, opened to the bookmarked leaf and started reading with utmost pleasure, the awkwardness of the past half hour behind me. Unable to conjure the patience to strike up a conversation anymore as I stooped in even deeper every time she cleared her throat, I guess she also gave up as she dug into her abyss-of-a-purse to magically pull out a thin but seriously abused novel - it was in tatters! Good table manners and as an extension in-flight manners deem it improper to peek into someone else's plate or book. To smithereens with flight etiquette as I peered through the corner of my book to check what she was reading, all in vain. Curiosity killed the cat, but it never did anything to people so why worry!
This is the part where I take a short break, crack my knuckles, bob my head left to right, forwards-backwards, sound out a clicking noise and wiggle my fingers ready to become my cynical rascal self as I get back to writing this post. If you read a book, or at least "pretend" reading one, at least stay committed to it for 5 freaking minutes! While I read 100 odd-pages into my 612 pager book, she appeared to have been half-way through her 100-150 mini-novel. Having deserted all hope of even a casual conversation given the introductions we had, the novel took up my attention, well almost. If it wasn't her squirming in the seat trying to make herself comfortable enough to read, it was her continued "chik-chik", wherein you make that VERY annoying audible "sigh" tugging hard at the handle as if that would make it disappear or turn into a gummi bear all of a sudden. Having adjusted her butt firmly at an angle no less obscure than the one a beggar takes to attract maximum sympathy, she finally got to reading. I don't remember how engrossed I was in my novel, but it seemed not much time had passed before the dreaded question came in the most insanely annoying chewing-gum-masticating, hair-twirling and high-pitched voice - "Watchyaaaaa readin'?" I named the book and then got back to reading. Was this the same girl I was almost drooling over some time ago? And again, "Wazzzzit 'bout?" Its about a guy who wants to fucking read his book in peace woman! I smiled politely giving her a brief synopsis of the enthralling journey the author takes you through the book. Pop comes the reply, "Soooo basically its not like real or stuff yeah?" I am talking to an imbecile, OMFG! Again, I smile "Yeah sort of". I adjust the specs on my nose and with a slight shake of the head get back to reading.
Thankfully that was where the questions stopped, but not her antics. Sensing a cold indifference in my curt replies she curls up again in her seat and gets back to her book. The sighs start again. The squeaking of her god-forsaken purse against the seat grows. I could hold her by the arms and shake her up real bad. I resist. Bite my lip and continue on reading. Half an hour later my attention is drawn to a scratching sound. Rats? On a plane? Godammit! I look down the aisle. Nobody's panicking. I look up the aisle. Still nobody. That's when against all hope I look to my right and there it is - that specimen from whatever planet the aliens wanted to flee from, picking dirt out of her nails with her bookmark, which once blunted at all four corners is forgone in favour of the boarding pass. That still does not explain the scratching though so I continue to wonder. Hardly a wait before I find out. After blowing the picked out dirt clean, she takes the book tightly in her hand and rustles the pages to FILE HER NAILS! Such insolence. No wonder the book looked old. For the next 20 minutes she continued with the charade, and put an end to it once the pilot announced we'd be landing at Mumbai airport soon. It took two reminders from the air hostess to get her to pull back her chair to upright position.
As we moved to collect baggage from the belt I spotted my trolley bag and moved forward to collect it. As I pulled it off, the girl walked up right behind me, offering her hand to shake "Hi, Sheetal". I replied in kind with a firm handshake and a smile, "Hi, not interested." and walked away glad to have rid myself of the nuisance.
She seemed like just another pretty face in the crowd, getting attention from most of the 20-something guys hanging around trying to act cool, standing slightly slouched, hands in pockets, talking in some foreign accent better suited for the alley-ways of New York than Indira Gandhi Airport, New Delhi. Neatly dressed in a sober top and skin-hugging jeans, she tip-toed to the boarding gate, the sound of her heels boring down into the sub-conscious like spokes driven through Pinhead in Hellraiser! There was nothing majestic about her yet she carried with her an air of sophistication that made you glance over your shoulder for that fraction of a second longer that divides the "oye hoye" chicks from the "Ay Carumba!" ones. Having a penchant for luck screwing me over, the mere idea of her sitting in the next seat, let alone the same row, seemed a virtual impossibility. I did not let my hopes up just to have them dashed all over again.
As I nestled into my aisle seat, stretching my legs, twisting to the left, to the right, bending forward, to ready myself for the hour long siesta ahead, I got tapped on the shoulder. I looked up. And I kept looking up. It must have been at least a minute's lag between my eyes blinking for the first time since crooning my neck to look up and the brain responding with "Holy Guacamole!!". Impatience was evident on her face. Now don't judge me as some horny perverted arse who drools at any girl that comes his way, but what I could not digest for that one minute was the fact that the Higher Power people brag about actually wanted "her" to sit next to me, ME! The embarrassing moment passed. Feeling ashamed at my immature departure from chivalry, I dug into the in-flight magazine reading up on the latest mango fondue recipe, afraid lest I raise my head and our eyes meet to judge me into nothingness again.
The flight was cleared for take-off and as was customary, I took out my book, opened to the bookmarked leaf and started reading with utmost pleasure, the awkwardness of the past half hour behind me. Unable to conjure the patience to strike up a conversation anymore as I stooped in even deeper every time she cleared her throat, I guess she also gave up as she dug into her abyss-of-a-purse to magically pull out a thin but seriously abused novel - it was in tatters! Good table manners and as an extension in-flight manners deem it improper to peek into someone else's plate or book. To smithereens with flight etiquette as I peered through the corner of my book to check what she was reading, all in vain. Curiosity killed the cat, but it never did anything to people so why worry!
This is the part where I take a short break, crack my knuckles, bob my head left to right, forwards-backwards, sound out a clicking noise and wiggle my fingers ready to become my cynical rascal self as I get back to writing this post. If you read a book, or at least "pretend" reading one, at least stay committed to it for 5 freaking minutes! While I read 100 odd-pages into my 612 pager book, she appeared to have been half-way through her 100-150 mini-novel. Having deserted all hope of even a casual conversation given the introductions we had, the novel took up my attention, well almost. If it wasn't her squirming in the seat trying to make herself comfortable enough to read, it was her continued "chik-chik", wherein you make that VERY annoying audible "sigh" tugging hard at the handle as if that would make it disappear or turn into a gummi bear all of a sudden. Having adjusted her butt firmly at an angle no less obscure than the one a beggar takes to attract maximum sympathy, she finally got to reading. I don't remember how engrossed I was in my novel, but it seemed not much time had passed before the dreaded question came in the most insanely annoying chewing-gum-masticating, hair-twirling and high-pitched voice - "Watchyaaaaa readin'?" I named the book and then got back to reading. Was this the same girl I was almost drooling over some time ago? And again, "Wazzzzit 'bout?" Its about a guy who wants to fucking read his book in peace woman! I smiled politely giving her a brief synopsis of the enthralling journey the author takes you through the book. Pop comes the reply, "Soooo basically its not like real or stuff yeah?" I am talking to an imbecile, OMFG! Again, I smile "Yeah sort of". I adjust the specs on my nose and with a slight shake of the head get back to reading.
Thankfully that was where the questions stopped, but not her antics. Sensing a cold indifference in my curt replies she curls up again in her seat and gets back to her book. The sighs start again. The squeaking of her god-forsaken purse against the seat grows. I could hold her by the arms and shake her up real bad. I resist. Bite my lip and continue on reading. Half an hour later my attention is drawn to a scratching sound. Rats? On a plane? Godammit! I look down the aisle. Nobody's panicking. I look up the aisle. Still nobody. That's when against all hope I look to my right and there it is - that specimen from whatever planet the aliens wanted to flee from, picking dirt out of her nails with her bookmark, which once blunted at all four corners is forgone in favour of the boarding pass. That still does not explain the scratching though so I continue to wonder. Hardly a wait before I find out. After blowing the picked out dirt clean, she takes the book tightly in her hand and rustles the pages to FILE HER NAILS! Such insolence. No wonder the book looked old. For the next 20 minutes she continued with the charade, and put an end to it once the pilot announced we'd be landing at Mumbai airport soon. It took two reminders from the air hostess to get her to pull back her chair to upright position.
As we moved to collect baggage from the belt I spotted my trolley bag and moved forward to collect it. As I pulled it off, the girl walked up right behind me, offering her hand to shake "Hi, Sheetal". I replied in kind with a firm handshake and a smile, "Hi, not interested." and walked away glad to have rid myself of the nuisance.
Friday, November 12, 2010
My precious
There is something inherently wrong with your life when there are six different ideas bobbing around inside your head and not one has materialised into ink over the past few days. There is something even worse at play when once you sit down at your laptop to write all you can think of is the good ol' times of pen and paper, using it reason enough to stretch, get up, grab a glass of juice and occupy yourself elsewhere. However, you know its time to set things straight when all your free time is occupied with rounds of logging in and out of Facebook, Gmail, Yahoo! mail, Hotmail, Twitter, and worst of all Orkut!
So here I am, one stanza and an hour-long panipuri hogging break later, attempting to reinvent before you, in whatever crude form possible, yet another airport tale.
All I told him was that the next passenger's luggage had not been tagged and was on the move already. What I got in return was The-Grinch-Who-Is-Trying-To-Steal-Christmas' scorn at being told what he ought to have known. To return the favour, he graciously accepted my request for an aisle seat, twisting the "gratitude" with the boarding pass reading 32D - the last row - unbearable backaches, limited leg-space, irritating steward chit-chat and a filthy stench, all complimentary. The only reprieve was a faint hope of the suave brunette who had just brushed past me to the next counter pissing off her attendant as well coming through with 32F if not 32E. Clasping on to the slight flicker of retribution, I ambled to the bus, choosing my favourite corner to stand and look out the window at the myriad of taxied planes.
First one to reach the last row, I slid in the camera bag underneath the seat in front of me, folded my hands in hopeful anticipation. There she was, struggling with her backpack and unmovable fat turds standing adamantly along the aisle, unwilling to be considerate enough and give way. Every row she passed, my heart grew warmer. Resting my weight on the side-arms, dangling almost mid-air, I counted the number of rows that separated her from my dream coming true. Ten rows, nine, eight, damn that bugger trying to squeeze in his suitcase into the overhead bin, seven, six, I swear I will come down and pulverise you into nothingness if you don't handle your kids, five, four, yeah-yeah enough with the "Welcome aboard Jet Airways. Namaste. Welcome aboard Jet Airways", three, TWO, O-N-E. My heart broke. She turned in towards 31C, 31B, before she finally seated her honey-filled sweetness on 31A. I could not believe my friggin' luck! Gawd hated me in that very instant. I lost all strength in my arms and fell plomp into my seat, sulking, ruing the check-in counter fiasco. It could not have gotten worse. Little did I know.
When there's something you want real bad, and miss it by just inches, you take solace in the fact that nobody else could have it either and in all probability you're the only one who ever got this close. As I was pacifying my dejection, there walked in that ridiculous image of a Tintin-haircut, loud mouthed, unbelievably loathsome and unmistakably incorrigible rascal! He tucked the small girly backpack flung across his back into the overhead bin and sat himself in 31C, realised how lucky a bastard he really was, turned to his otherwise pompously high-nosed family seated in 31D-F and gave them a thumbs up, thanking his mom for excluding him from the "family union". Frankly, I could not care much about such gaudy display of immaturity, but come on he was going after my girl with the intention to "hit that"! While he drooled all over his seat, I sat there fuming.
Now I can live with a little disappointment. I could also make my peace with an undeserving prick's hyperactive saliva glands having the day of their lives. But when a big hunk of flesh walks in and asks me to "scoot over" so that he can fit himself into 32E, that is just pushing the limit! At this point I neatly replaced the bookmark to page 197, closed the book, tucked it into the pouch, closed my eyes and tried drifting into a place where my senses would go numb, away from this blasphemy. Ah but my clever reader judging from the length of this post you have guessed there's more to the story haven't you? Wearing a cuff-linked navy blue shirt, a red and black scarf stuffed around the neck, Tintin's dad walked up the aisle, stopped next to his son, placed a heavy hand on his shoulder and that brought on the drought of saliva, the end to his undeserving happiness, the nemesis of any hopes he had to "hitting that"! I was elated. Ecstatic even. The pure evil pleasure of having the bugger's hopes dashed filled me warmth all over again. Justice prevailed. I know, am a monster. I don't effing care!
So at the end of it all while he twisted and turned between two oldies trying to yell each other to sleep, I ended up befriending the India Today exec sitting next to me, the flawless beauty remained unharmed and beyond everyone's reach, the annoying family proved to be too nerve-racking and the father proved himself an obnoxious goon in his dealings with the air hostess. It might make sense for me to elaborate a little on the latter part of that last sentence, but am signing off on this happy note. Screw everything, order had finally been restored.
PS: The title has The Lord of the Rings overtones, in case you didn't get it, tough luck!
So here I am, one stanza and an hour-long panipuri hogging break later, attempting to reinvent before you, in whatever crude form possible, yet another airport tale.
All I told him was that the next passenger's luggage had not been tagged and was on the move already. What I got in return was The-Grinch-Who-Is-Trying-To-Steal-Christmas' scorn at being told what he ought to have known. To return the favour, he graciously accepted my request for an aisle seat, twisting the "gratitude" with the boarding pass reading 32D - the last row - unbearable backaches, limited leg-space, irritating steward chit-chat and a filthy stench, all complimentary. The only reprieve was a faint hope of the suave brunette who had just brushed past me to the next counter pissing off her attendant as well coming through with 32F if not 32E. Clasping on to the slight flicker of retribution, I ambled to the bus, choosing my favourite corner to stand and look out the window at the myriad of taxied planes.
First one to reach the last row, I slid in the camera bag underneath the seat in front of me, folded my hands in hopeful anticipation. There she was, struggling with her backpack and unmovable fat turds standing adamantly along the aisle, unwilling to be considerate enough and give way. Every row she passed, my heart grew warmer. Resting my weight on the side-arms, dangling almost mid-air, I counted the number of rows that separated her from my dream coming true. Ten rows, nine, eight, damn that bugger trying to squeeze in his suitcase into the overhead bin, seven, six, I swear I will come down and pulverise you into nothingness if you don't handle your kids, five, four, yeah-yeah enough with the "Welcome aboard Jet Airways. Namaste. Welcome aboard Jet Airways", three, TWO, O-N-E. My heart broke. She turned in towards 31C, 31B, before she finally seated her honey-filled sweetness on 31A. I could not believe my friggin' luck! Gawd hated me in that very instant. I lost all strength in my arms and fell plomp into my seat, sulking, ruing the check-in counter fiasco. It could not have gotten worse. Little did I know.
When there's something you want real bad, and miss it by just inches, you take solace in the fact that nobody else could have it either and in all probability you're the only one who ever got this close. As I was pacifying my dejection, there walked in that ridiculous image of a Tintin-haircut, loud mouthed, unbelievably loathsome and unmistakably incorrigible rascal! He tucked the small girly backpack flung across his back into the overhead bin and sat himself in 31C, realised how lucky a bastard he really was, turned to his otherwise pompously high-nosed family seated in 31D-F and gave them a thumbs up, thanking his mom for excluding him from the "family union". Frankly, I could not care much about such gaudy display of immaturity, but come on he was going after my girl with the intention to "hit that"! While he drooled all over his seat, I sat there fuming.
Now I can live with a little disappointment. I could also make my peace with an undeserving prick's hyperactive saliva glands having the day of their lives. But when a big hunk of flesh walks in and asks me to "scoot over" so that he can fit himself into 32E, that is just pushing the limit! At this point I neatly replaced the bookmark to page 197, closed the book, tucked it into the pouch, closed my eyes and tried drifting into a place where my senses would go numb, away from this blasphemy. Ah but my clever reader judging from the length of this post you have guessed there's more to the story haven't you? Wearing a cuff-linked navy blue shirt, a red and black scarf stuffed around the neck, Tintin's dad walked up the aisle, stopped next to his son, placed a heavy hand on his shoulder and that brought on the drought of saliva, the end to his undeserving happiness, the nemesis of any hopes he had to "hitting that"! I was elated. Ecstatic even. The pure evil pleasure of having the bugger's hopes dashed filled me warmth all over again. Justice prevailed. I know, am a monster. I don't effing care!
So at the end of it all while he twisted and turned between two oldies trying to yell each other to sleep, I ended up befriending the India Today exec sitting next to me, the flawless beauty remained unharmed and beyond everyone's reach, the annoying family proved to be too nerve-racking and the father proved himself an obnoxious goon in his dealings with the air hostess. It might make sense for me to elaborate a little on the latter part of that last sentence, but am signing off on this happy note. Screw everything, order had finally been restored.
PS: The title has The Lord of the Rings overtones, in case you didn't get it, tough luck!
Friday, September 24, 2010
Big City Life
Second day of induction, one of my friends told me I'd take a liking to Mumbai, and eventually start hating every breath I take in the, what he called "foul and demeaning existence" I'll begin to lead in no time. My initial reaction was of shock, but then I laughed it off. As I got to know him better, I attributed the bitterness to his last stint at Mumbai which ended under rather gloomy circumstances for him. He is in Delhi now. I am still in Mumbai.
Sixteen months hence, and probably a couple of days more, I continue with my hectic routine travelling in the local train from Churchgate to Borivali as am scribbling down these notes. Travelers, opportunists, destitute, whoever ends up in this city has his/her own story to tell. Some crib about the endless monsoon, others of the jam-packed local trains. For some the concept of "Marathi Manoos" is too difficult to digest whilst others get indigestion just at the mere mention of panipuri served hot! While one generation revels in the freedom and mesmerising night-life in this city of lights, another seeks solace in the artistic bent of mind underlying the city that launched Usha Uthup and gave air to actors like Naseeruddin Shah. I, personally, love the city. My mom won't be very happy reading this probably, but then again she isn't really a follower of my endless ramblings.
You can either love or hate Mumbai, nothing down the middle. I used to think that it was the fast-paced life here that probably got to people or was one of the reasons why they loved it so much. Seems pretty counter-intuitive considering rush hour usually brings Mumbai to get down on its knees and crawl at snail's pace. To experiment with an idea, I asked a couple of people why they hated Mumbai so much? Yes, you can imagine the depth of answers I got - realty prices, space constraints, endless rains, bomb blasts, food, curry smells, the 'marathi' concept, Shiv Sena, and the list goes on. While having this discussion with someone on the train yesterday evening, I casually passed out a 10er to an elderly woman asking for alms. She carried on forward mumbling some sort of blessing. She had moved just a few paces forward when she turned and said "Log hain. Log hain iss shehar ki sabse badi kamzori saab". She shook her tin bowl again, the clank of coins inside echoing through the compartment as she went about her business again.
Dear Reader, I'll be honest and accept the dilemma I am faced with right now. As enticing as it may seem to end the post here, and trust me when I tell you that I had slid my small pocket notebook in at this moment of time in the train as well, but the Indian desire to give my tuppence on that qualifying statement refuses to die out. We both went quiet after listening to the old lady. Somehow, neither of us could find words, or anything worth discussing. Instead, while he closed his eyes and dozed off, I kept staring out the window at the passing buildings, hedges, drains, wondering, where and when we lost track of what life felt like aside from this daily drag. There was no revelation, no bright moment of realisation, just a brief period of contemplation till I reached Borivali station and set forth on my mission to woo another client to join our Exchange. It is not the fast pace that has sucked out whatever little marrow of compassion that was left in this metro life, but a sense of indifference and apathy people possess. Crowds come gushing in, others rush out. In all the elbowing and knocking each other around just to get your two feet planted firmly on the ground, there seems to be no regard whatsoever on the old guy fighting to even get on with his life. The disconnect is so pronounced that even a discussion over beer never relates to friends bitching about work, nobody cares two hoots about what problems the other guy is facing. To each his own is what personifies the Mumbai life perfectly.
Such apathy has its pros and cons, and am not here to discuss these. What it did do, however, is wake me up to face the fact that probably, just probably, am not as happy as I had initially thought I was in this big city life.
Sixteen months hence, and probably a couple of days more, I continue with my hectic routine travelling in the local train from Churchgate to Borivali as am scribbling down these notes. Travelers, opportunists, destitute, whoever ends up in this city has his/her own story to tell. Some crib about the endless monsoon, others of the jam-packed local trains. For some the concept of "Marathi Manoos" is too difficult to digest whilst others get indigestion just at the mere mention of panipuri served hot! While one generation revels in the freedom and mesmerising night-life in this city of lights, another seeks solace in the artistic bent of mind underlying the city that launched Usha Uthup and gave air to actors like Naseeruddin Shah. I, personally, love the city. My mom won't be very happy reading this probably, but then again she isn't really a follower of my endless ramblings.
You can either love or hate Mumbai, nothing down the middle. I used to think that it was the fast-paced life here that probably got to people or was one of the reasons why they loved it so much. Seems pretty counter-intuitive considering rush hour usually brings Mumbai to get down on its knees and crawl at snail's pace. To experiment with an idea, I asked a couple of people why they hated Mumbai so much? Yes, you can imagine the depth of answers I got - realty prices, space constraints, endless rains, bomb blasts, food, curry smells, the 'marathi' concept, Shiv Sena, and the list goes on. While having this discussion with someone on the train yesterday evening, I casually passed out a 10er to an elderly woman asking for alms. She carried on forward mumbling some sort of blessing. She had moved just a few paces forward when she turned and said "Log hain. Log hain iss shehar ki sabse badi kamzori saab". She shook her tin bowl again, the clank of coins inside echoing through the compartment as she went about her business again.
Dear Reader, I'll be honest and accept the dilemma I am faced with right now. As enticing as it may seem to end the post here, and trust me when I tell you that I had slid my small pocket notebook in at this moment of time in the train as well, but the Indian desire to give my tuppence on that qualifying statement refuses to die out. We both went quiet after listening to the old lady. Somehow, neither of us could find words, or anything worth discussing. Instead, while he closed his eyes and dozed off, I kept staring out the window at the passing buildings, hedges, drains, wondering, where and when we lost track of what life felt like aside from this daily drag. There was no revelation, no bright moment of realisation, just a brief period of contemplation till I reached Borivali station and set forth on my mission to woo another client to join our Exchange. It is not the fast pace that has sucked out whatever little marrow of compassion that was left in this metro life, but a sense of indifference and apathy people possess. Crowds come gushing in, others rush out. In all the elbowing and knocking each other around just to get your two feet planted firmly on the ground, there seems to be no regard whatsoever on the old guy fighting to even get on with his life. The disconnect is so pronounced that even a discussion over beer never relates to friends bitching about work, nobody cares two hoots about what problems the other guy is facing. To each his own is what personifies the Mumbai life perfectly.
Such apathy has its pros and cons, and am not here to discuss these. What it did do, however, is wake me up to face the fact that probably, just probably, am not as happy as I had initially thought I was in this big city life.
Saturday, September 11, 2010
Dear Reader
The year 2006 was a mixed bag. While some cheered FC Barcelona's victory over long time rivals Arsenal in the UEFA Champion's League, others mourned France's loss to Italy in the FIFA World Cup finals. Honestly, am not much of a football fanatic, I'd love to be one, but the number of clubs, leagues, players, just seems too overwhelming. I knew of the World Cup win coming after penalities 5-3 in favour of Italy, but I had to google up the club Barcelona beat that year to lift the UEFA Champion's League Trophy. Don't worry, am not here to flaunt my googling skills or have myself judged for utter disregard of sports whatsoever. The agenda for today is somewhat different. This same year was the birth of this blog, more out of aspiration to woo than inspiration to be someone.
Four years hence, the blog still stands tall, having weathered through mood swings, rampant enough to have necessitated a new branch of study for hormonal imbalance. While humour was always the prerogative, it oft became my medium to spew hatred and disgust against people, situations. At the end of it all, however, hopefully this blog remains funny in its entirety, unfortunately being so at my expense more often than not. I won't reminisce on the good and bad memories over the past 4 years and outline how the blog meandered through dry patches and months of avid writing. This post is for you, dear Reader, to thank you for your unwavering support and endurance to toil through the tiresome ramblings on this blog; to thank those who chose to comment and share their valuable, at times rather frivolous, suggestions.
Frankly, I had been keeping this thank you note in reserve for my 100th post on the blog, but that is something what most bloggers do anyway, and since this blog aims to be an anti-thesis to such corny bull-crap, let it be this 97th post, whereby I proclaim to have been honoured by your presence and devoted reading which has egged me on almost every time to ramble on for a few more lines. Not to blame you entirely for the fiasco that is this collection of random scribblings, I also want to express my gratitude to the countless faces and people wobbling, weakly, in my memories, from whose insolence or sheer stupidity flowed a never-ending string of words, inter-woven in a net of phrases - phrases I have almost egoistically admired every now and again. Had it not been for your nuisance, and utter pointless existence on this Earth, there would not have been that undertone of dark cynicism in what I write that makes me gush and chuckle with evil every time I log in to my blog.
While the amount I travel has reduced, and a lull of boredom surrounds my increasingly decaying existence, there appears every few moments a flicker of frivolity, which I pounce upon to suck out whatever little marrow of sarcasm I can and splash it all over this blog. Life seems to have taken a turn towards still waters, happiness is elusive, intent has gone amiss. Yet through all this negativity that surrounds us right now, I promise thee, O Ye Faithful Reader, it shall come to pass that there would be a rejuvenation of this blog and a liveliness about it soon. For what its worth, I can now say, with utmost pride and arrogance, what started out based on aspiration has now transformed into inspiration, and that, my friend is how we do it around here now! ;-)
The End
Four years hence, the blog still stands tall, having weathered through mood swings, rampant enough to have necessitated a new branch of study for hormonal imbalance. While humour was always the prerogative, it oft became my medium to spew hatred and disgust against people, situations. At the end of it all, however, hopefully this blog remains funny in its entirety, unfortunately being so at my expense more often than not. I won't reminisce on the good and bad memories over the past 4 years and outline how the blog meandered through dry patches and months of avid writing. This post is for you, dear Reader, to thank you for your unwavering support and endurance to toil through the tiresome ramblings on this blog; to thank those who chose to comment and share their valuable, at times rather frivolous, suggestions.
Frankly, I had been keeping this thank you note in reserve for my 100th post on the blog, but that is something what most bloggers do anyway, and since this blog aims to be an anti-thesis to such corny bull-crap, let it be this 97th post, whereby I proclaim to have been honoured by your presence and devoted reading which has egged me on almost every time to ramble on for a few more lines. Not to blame you entirely for the fiasco that is this collection of random scribblings, I also want to express my gratitude to the countless faces and people wobbling, weakly, in my memories, from whose insolence or sheer stupidity flowed a never-ending string of words, inter-woven in a net of phrases - phrases I have almost egoistically admired every now and again. Had it not been for your nuisance, and utter pointless existence on this Earth, there would not have been that undertone of dark cynicism in what I write that makes me gush and chuckle with evil every time I log in to my blog.
While the amount I travel has reduced, and a lull of boredom surrounds my increasingly decaying existence, there appears every few moments a flicker of frivolity, which I pounce upon to suck out whatever little marrow of sarcasm I can and splash it all over this blog. Life seems to have taken a turn towards still waters, happiness is elusive, intent has gone amiss. Yet through all this negativity that surrounds us right now, I promise thee, O Ye Faithful Reader, it shall come to pass that there would be a rejuvenation of this blog and a liveliness about it soon. For what its worth, I can now say, with utmost pride and arrogance, what started out based on aspiration has now transformed into inspiration, and that, my friend is how we do it around here now! ;-)
The End
Thursday, August 26, 2010
Bo kata
If I think hard enough, there is just a remote possibility I'd remember the last time I stood up on the roof, next to my bro, holding nimbly onto the charkhadi, egging him on to take the big red kite on. This was how it worked 'tween me and my bro - I was the one who was supposed to stand about a cricket pitch's length away, kite in hand, to let him get that initial elevation, and then scamper back to his position to commandeer the kite string holster, as he maneuvered, his tongue pressing hard against the left inner cheek, as he swerved from left to right, forwards and backwards, the kite soaring higher up into the sky. Honestly, I never really minded being there as the sentry arming the holster while he led charge and attacked all other vultures scavenging the skies. For me, standing there, stealing a glimpse of how liberated my bro felt tugging gently at times and pulling hard at others, was enough. He'd just look my way, smirk, as our eagle'd rise higher towards the heavens, leaving all others behind. He still instills a feeling of pride and arrogance whenever his kite takes off into the air.
I had never been a fan of kite-flying, mostly content with having a small 50 paise plastic piece of crap given to me in extremely windy conditions that would fly high, carried by the wind as long as I kept giving it string to continue on. Minimal effort, that was my bidding. Such insolence on my part still pisses my bro off, mostly because he fails to understand why I am so indifferent to the sport - one that has been mastered by at least one bloke in the Gupta bloodline every generation! I credit my indifference to him, since he turned out to be that guy, leaving no scope for me - am a dirty rat, I know. :)
All of what I just said still does not put anything in perspective. I mean, come on, who writes an article on kite-flying?! There isn't much up for discussion or debate, nor is it any more exciting than listing the nuances of horse-riding or something of the sort. Most people won't even relate to the liberation I associated with my bro. I would not either. Why then, I questioned myself yesterday, when I saw the young boy and his younger friend at the crossroad divider animated and fighting hard to get their kite to win the war up in the air, I peered out of the taxi, and kept looking back as we drove past the crossing, trying to find something? It was not a moment of realisation, or divine intervention. I did not expect a revelation, an epiphany on how we waste away precious moments of our lives not paying attention to the minute details that define us. Almost a day since, I still cannot get that picture out of my head. I smile thinking of the joy and head-butt they must have done once the bird soared up into the air - why? I know not, I care not, and that makes me happy.
In a day full of disappointments, stress, anger, pre-occupation, I guess we do not mind the brief break and escape from reality. Kite-flying grew on me, perhaps. It might as well have been a moment of truth or reverence, deliverance from frustration, probably. Or maybe I really just wanted to see who'd win - can't deny the "rat race" element of the human psyche. For all I care, it could have been anything, but in that moment as I turned back in my seat, all I thought of were the words "bo kata" and that is all of what occupied my mind and made me smile.
I promise you bro, come this 15th August, I shall be there by your side, holding on, as we conquer the heavens once again! ;-)
I had never been a fan of kite-flying, mostly content with having a small 50 paise plastic piece of crap given to me in extremely windy conditions that would fly high, carried by the wind as long as I kept giving it string to continue on. Minimal effort, that was my bidding. Such insolence on my part still pisses my bro off, mostly because he fails to understand why I am so indifferent to the sport - one that has been mastered by at least one bloke in the Gupta bloodline every generation! I credit my indifference to him, since he turned out to be that guy, leaving no scope for me - am a dirty rat, I know. :)
All of what I just said still does not put anything in perspective. I mean, come on, who writes an article on kite-flying?! There isn't much up for discussion or debate, nor is it any more exciting than listing the nuances of horse-riding or something of the sort. Most people won't even relate to the liberation I associated with my bro. I would not either. Why then, I questioned myself yesterday, when I saw the young boy and his younger friend at the crossroad divider animated and fighting hard to get their kite to win the war up in the air, I peered out of the taxi, and kept looking back as we drove past the crossing, trying to find something? It was not a moment of realisation, or divine intervention. I did not expect a revelation, an epiphany on how we waste away precious moments of our lives not paying attention to the minute details that define us. Almost a day since, I still cannot get that picture out of my head. I smile thinking of the joy and head-butt they must have done once the bird soared up into the air - why? I know not, I care not, and that makes me happy.
In a day full of disappointments, stress, anger, pre-occupation, I guess we do not mind the brief break and escape from reality. Kite-flying grew on me, perhaps. It might as well have been a moment of truth or reverence, deliverance from frustration, probably. Or maybe I really just wanted to see who'd win - can't deny the "rat race" element of the human psyche. For all I care, it could have been anything, but in that moment as I turned back in my seat, all I thought of were the words "bo kata" and that is all of what occupied my mind and made me smile.
I promise you bro, come this 15th August, I shall be there by your side, holding on, as we conquer the heavens once again! ;-)
Friday, July 30, 2010
Heat.
Having moved well into the more mature side of the 20s, it comes as no surprise that every Tommy uncle, Dick cousin and Harry aunty has just one item on their agenda - get this boy married! Every phone call or casual visit transforms into either of three things - One, a prolonged lecture on how your younger brother is also in line to get married, Two, a spat of expletives coaxing you to "get real" and accept arranged marriage as a viable option, Three, and the most annoying, a pity-talk of how you're balding and the proposition of you being a fresh IIM-A grad is fast fading away. The worst part is, you build immunity over a period of time, become hard-pressed to revolt against marriage as an institution in its own right, even if till this point of time you cherished the idea of a long term commitment to one person. What becomes of you, is subjective. Am going to present here, before you, a facet of such a subliminal metamorphosis.
I pride myself, probably a little too narcissistically at times, of not objectifying women. To be honest, I might have gone "Ay Carumba" or "Habba Habba" when a smoking hot chick walks past by, but that was more out of knee-jerk-why-did-god-give-us-so-much-testosterone-involuntary-appreciation than out of a perversion to drool at anything with smooth legs or skin showing! But herein lies the catch. When your aunt walks up to you, every single time, shoving the SAME OLD monotone-thought down you, "what kind of girl do you want beta?", you just can't help it, but wonder about the answer to that question. Ironically, the more you think about it, the more murky the image gets, and the more you begin to idealise. And trust me, simply closing your eyes won't reveal her face to you - its a load of bullcrap!
Such indecision drives you to the brink of embarrassment when, aboard the train, you accidentally bump into a "nice" girl - I frankly have no clue what "nice" means, but its my choice to be as vague as possible here for want of better description. You might have the most harmless of intentions, you might be one of the last few survivors of the chivalry clan, yet in that momentary lapse, you become a dog in heat, and you simply stare, blankly, not even judging, or analysing the girl, but just trying to fit her in on the "what kind of girl do you want beta" scale. And you simply forget how obviously, in-your-face you appear at that time, coming across as the very vilification of perverseness you detest in all middle-aged men! The girl looks back, not with the usual smile you used to get, but with a scorching detesting stare, a slap across the face that wakes you up and brings you back to reality. Appreciation is just not what it used to be anymore. *sigh*
Unlike before, you listen in on girls making small talk. You feel this weird eagerness to get to know the female psyche better. The more you get involved, the more confusing it gets. Rationality and reason take a plunge out the window. I don't remember being this way when I fell in love a long time back - this shit is scary! No wonder guys get scared at the very proposition of marriage. Experts have it all wrong. It never was the impossibility of being with just one woman all your life, but the inevitability of how peer pressure and marriage would change the way you perceive the opposite sex that drove us men to abandon so many at the altar!
On the flipside, there is always the silver lining of such an arrangement that is thrust upon you, of dreaming big and believing there is just that outside chance of having Sonam Kapoor by your side in some sort of parallel universe. Heat - the imagination it lends you! :)
I pride myself, probably a little too narcissistically at times, of not objectifying women. To be honest, I might have gone "Ay Carumba" or "Habba Habba" when a smoking hot chick walks past by, but that was more out of knee-jerk-why-did-god-give-us-so-much-testosterone-involuntary-appreciation than out of a perversion to drool at anything with smooth legs or skin showing! But herein lies the catch. When your aunt walks up to you, every single time, shoving the SAME OLD monotone-thought down you, "what kind of girl do you want beta?", you just can't help it, but wonder about the answer to that question. Ironically, the more you think about it, the more murky the image gets, and the more you begin to idealise. And trust me, simply closing your eyes won't reveal her face to you - its a load of bullcrap!
Such indecision drives you to the brink of embarrassment when, aboard the train, you accidentally bump into a "nice" girl - I frankly have no clue what "nice" means, but its my choice to be as vague as possible here for want of better description. You might have the most harmless of intentions, you might be one of the last few survivors of the chivalry clan, yet in that momentary lapse, you become a dog in heat, and you simply stare, blankly, not even judging, or analysing the girl, but just trying to fit her in on the "what kind of girl do you want beta" scale. And you simply forget how obviously, in-your-face you appear at that time, coming across as the very vilification of perverseness you detest in all middle-aged men! The girl looks back, not with the usual smile you used to get, but with a scorching detesting stare, a slap across the face that wakes you up and brings you back to reality. Appreciation is just not what it used to be anymore. *sigh*
Unlike before, you listen in on girls making small talk. You feel this weird eagerness to get to know the female psyche better. The more you get involved, the more confusing it gets. Rationality and reason take a plunge out the window. I don't remember being this way when I fell in love a long time back - this shit is scary! No wonder guys get scared at the very proposition of marriage. Experts have it all wrong. It never was the impossibility of being with just one woman all your life, but the inevitability of how peer pressure and marriage would change the way you perceive the opposite sex that drove us men to abandon so many at the altar!
On the flipside, there is always the silver lining of such an arrangement that is thrust upon you, of dreaming big and believing there is just that outside chance of having Sonam Kapoor by your side in some sort of parallel universe. Heat - the imagination it lends you! :)
Sunday, July 25, 2010
A Bandra kinda guy
6:00 a.m. Barking overheard.
6:02 a.m. You put your head tween your pillow and mattress. The barking endures.
6:05 a.m. Move over to the left side. Dig your face into the pillow hard!
6:10 a.m. Curl up inside the covers pretending the barking has stopped.
6:28 a.m. The plan to ignore succeeds and peace prevails.
6:29 a.m. Realisation strikes. A monster has been let loose. Scratching sounds at the front door.
6:31 a.m. The whelp yelps.
6:35 a.m. Dreary, rubbing your eyes, you open the first door, look out and with a half wave of the hand go "Bad dawg!"
6:40 a.m. After 5 minutes of trying to convince the dawg it isn't play time yet (as if the idgit would have ever gotten a word of what you just said!), you just give up.
6:46 a.m. You throw on a jacket. Its pouring outside. Shorts on, cool breeze blowing, just too lazy to put on track pants, you get out. Curses! You forgot to take the keys with you. Locked, till the other lazy bums wake up after 2 hours!
6:50 a.m. After slapping the pooch for around 2 minutes and preaching to her how behaving and discipline is good for her, you knuckle brush her on the head and tug on her collar.
6:53 a.m. Drat! Who the hell forgets to put on socks when going for a jog?! Ah fuck it!
From there on what ensues is pure bliss. Taking Snowy out for a jog on a rainy Sunday morning, playing ball with her, throwing two sticks in different directions and watching her get confused, roll over beckoning you to tickle her on the tummy. After 2 hours of dancing and playing around with one of the brattiest pooches on the planet, its time to get her ready for a well deserved nap below the staircase on her soft rug. Once nestled in all comfy and sleepy-eyed, you tip-toe back upstairs, and after ringing the bell for almost 8-10 times, you just go crash on the bed again.
10:30 a.m. You wake up with a start! Realisation strikes again - its SUNDAY for heaven's sake, give yourself a break. Ah well, now that you're up might as well make something of it.
10:35 a.m. Fiddling around in the kitchen, making faces at the unwashed pots and pans from last night, you decide Sunday ho ya Monday roz khao ande.
10:36 a.m. The fridge is what would have even an elephant put up notice for room sharing, yet all you see inside is an expired carton of milk and some rotting veggies from a week ago for sure if not a month!
10:40 a.m. You're back out in the rain, this time with an umbrella and oshos on. Scrambling across the muddy path, a poly-pack of milk for Snowy, 5 eggs and bread make their way into your breakfast menu finally.
10:55 a.m. Too lazy to wash the dishes and then wait for brekky to be cooked properly, crack goes the first egg into a tumbler, and the second, damn spilled the third, the fourth in and the last one into the container as well. Give it a good shake, hold your nose and *gulp*. Its gone! Bread. Hmm. No butter, no cheese. Zilch. Ah well, God intended man to eat everything raw and unprocessed, so you gnaw at two slices gorging down gulps of water to get the pieces down your throat.
Reading the day's paper, feet on top of the window sill, rays of sunshine trickling in from the side, sifting through the photo mag, finishing off the next few pages of a book that you've been on for more than a month now, sipping on the carton of juice you forgot outside on the porch last night, time passes by. The tummy begins to rumble, a pretty good argument to wake the others up and head out for lunch.
Lunch done, time to play with Snowy and Danny again through the next hour or so as they finish off the Pedigree served by the aunty downstairs. As Danny decides she's become too old to play and cozies into a warm corner, Snowy goes sniffing for hidden treasure and you retire to your bed to watch some TV and probably drift off for an afternoon siesta.
I could go on and describe an entertaining evening out with friends either by the seaside at Carter Road, or sipping on cutting chai at Prithvi, followed with a trip to south Bombay for a sumptuous dinner and beer followed by a night out at Marine Drive and Worli Seaface singing, but that is not the point of this post. What follows now, is.
Cut to Santa Cruz (E) a.k.a. Kalina - our new abode
I hate this place.
It would suffice to stop at just that, but sitting here in my room, on a Sunday evening sulking, it is probably befitting that I vent out a little.
Sure I now have a room I can call my own, unlike before when we used to sleep on mattresses spread out in the hall. But if a roach crawling on your bed two nights in a row becomes reason for your roomie to shift base to the swing upstairs, it is not much consolation that you are now the king of a roach infested room!
Sure we have a swing upstairs. But what is the point if people just love "dying" on it and leaving it a filthy mess having slept and waddled on it as if they were making love to it!
Sure we have an "upstairs" and a "downstairs" in the house. But what is the point if because of those stairs you spent the first month nursing bruised and swollen knees since they have been made with the intent of surviving a nuclear attack in an underground bunker!
Sure we have airconditioning in EVERY room. But were you not the one who hates ACs?
Sure we have a TV now that shows ALL the primary colours. But was it not more fun banging that junk box back in Bandra and doing hajjar natak to get the cable going properly?
Sure we traded up in terms of per head rent we now pay. But did we not trade DOWN in going away from Bandra?
The list is endless, so is my frustration with having to come over at night and realise its less of a home every day, and more of a pit-stop to get back to the dreary routine of office day in and day out! Every weekend the sole objective becomes to get out of this rotting hell, which has been hollowing you from the inside, sucking out every drop of happiness. Lethargy characterises this place. Its like walking into zombieland after 8 in the night. The neighbours, if they see you, they cringe, as if we're renowned extortionists and murderers, if not disgusting lepers. You realise you hate a place too much when "not being able to dry your clothes out in the sun" becomes reason for you to get annoyed even more.
I miss Bandra. I miss Snowy and Danny. I miss that life.
6:02 a.m. You put your head tween your pillow and mattress. The barking endures.
6:05 a.m. Move over to the left side. Dig your face into the pillow hard!
6:10 a.m. Curl up inside the covers pretending the barking has stopped.
6:28 a.m. The plan to ignore succeeds and peace prevails.
6:29 a.m. Realisation strikes. A monster has been let loose. Scratching sounds at the front door.
6:31 a.m. The whelp yelps.
6:35 a.m. Dreary, rubbing your eyes, you open the first door, look out and with a half wave of the hand go "Bad dawg!"
6:40 a.m. After 5 minutes of trying to convince the dawg it isn't play time yet (as if the idgit would have ever gotten a word of what you just said!), you just give up.
6:46 a.m. You throw on a jacket. Its pouring outside. Shorts on, cool breeze blowing, just too lazy to put on track pants, you get out. Curses! You forgot to take the keys with you. Locked, till the other lazy bums wake up after 2 hours!
6:50 a.m. After slapping the pooch for around 2 minutes and preaching to her how behaving and discipline is good for her, you knuckle brush her on the head and tug on her collar.
6:53 a.m. Drat! Who the hell forgets to put on socks when going for a jog?! Ah fuck it!
From there on what ensues is pure bliss. Taking Snowy out for a jog on a rainy Sunday morning, playing ball with her, throwing two sticks in different directions and watching her get confused, roll over beckoning you to tickle her on the tummy. After 2 hours of dancing and playing around with one of the brattiest pooches on the planet, its time to get her ready for a well deserved nap below the staircase on her soft rug. Once nestled in all comfy and sleepy-eyed, you tip-toe back upstairs, and after ringing the bell for almost 8-10 times, you just go crash on the bed again.
10:30 a.m. You wake up with a start! Realisation strikes again - its SUNDAY for heaven's sake, give yourself a break. Ah well, now that you're up might as well make something of it.
10:35 a.m. Fiddling around in the kitchen, making faces at the unwashed pots and pans from last night, you decide Sunday ho ya Monday roz khao ande.
10:36 a.m. The fridge is what would have even an elephant put up notice for room sharing, yet all you see inside is an expired carton of milk and some rotting veggies from a week ago for sure if not a month!
10:40 a.m. You're back out in the rain, this time with an umbrella and oshos on. Scrambling across the muddy path, a poly-pack of milk for Snowy, 5 eggs and bread make their way into your breakfast menu finally.
10:55 a.m. Too lazy to wash the dishes and then wait for brekky to be cooked properly, crack goes the first egg into a tumbler, and the second, damn spilled the third, the fourth in and the last one into the container as well. Give it a good shake, hold your nose and *gulp*. Its gone! Bread. Hmm. No butter, no cheese. Zilch. Ah well, God intended man to eat everything raw and unprocessed, so you gnaw at two slices gorging down gulps of water to get the pieces down your throat.
Reading the day's paper, feet on top of the window sill, rays of sunshine trickling in from the side, sifting through the photo mag, finishing off the next few pages of a book that you've been on for more than a month now, sipping on the carton of juice you forgot outside on the porch last night, time passes by. The tummy begins to rumble, a pretty good argument to wake the others up and head out for lunch.
Lunch done, time to play with Snowy and Danny again through the next hour or so as they finish off the Pedigree served by the aunty downstairs. As Danny decides she's become too old to play and cozies into a warm corner, Snowy goes sniffing for hidden treasure and you retire to your bed to watch some TV and probably drift off for an afternoon siesta.
I could go on and describe an entertaining evening out with friends either by the seaside at Carter Road, or sipping on cutting chai at Prithvi, followed with a trip to south Bombay for a sumptuous dinner and beer followed by a night out at Marine Drive and Worli Seaface singing, but that is not the point of this post. What follows now, is.
Cut to Santa Cruz (E) a.k.a. Kalina - our new abode
I hate this place.
It would suffice to stop at just that, but sitting here in my room, on a Sunday evening sulking, it is probably befitting that I vent out a little.
Sure I now have a room I can call my own, unlike before when we used to sleep on mattresses spread out in the hall. But if a roach crawling on your bed two nights in a row becomes reason for your roomie to shift base to the swing upstairs, it is not much consolation that you are now the king of a roach infested room!
Sure we have a swing upstairs. But what is the point if people just love "dying" on it and leaving it a filthy mess having slept and waddled on it as if they were making love to it!
Sure we have an "upstairs" and a "downstairs" in the house. But what is the point if because of those stairs you spent the first month nursing bruised and swollen knees since they have been made with the intent of surviving a nuclear attack in an underground bunker!
Sure we have airconditioning in EVERY room. But were you not the one who hates ACs?
Sure we have a TV now that shows ALL the primary colours. But was it not more fun banging that junk box back in Bandra and doing hajjar natak to get the cable going properly?
Sure we traded up in terms of per head rent we now pay. But did we not trade DOWN in going away from Bandra?
The list is endless, so is my frustration with having to come over at night and realise its less of a home every day, and more of a pit-stop to get back to the dreary routine of office day in and day out! Every weekend the sole objective becomes to get out of this rotting hell, which has been hollowing you from the inside, sucking out every drop of happiness. Lethargy characterises this place. Its like walking into zombieland after 8 in the night. The neighbours, if they see you, they cringe, as if we're renowned extortionists and murderers, if not disgusting lepers. You realise you hate a place too much when "not being able to dry your clothes out in the sun" becomes reason for you to get annoyed even more.
I miss Bandra. I miss Snowy and Danny. I miss that life.
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
The human circus
I have come to realise something, of course about myself, so have no clue if it'll interest you in the least or not but thats beside the point. I am passionate about writing and photography, probably why I want to be a war correspondent someday (all of us are allowed to pamper our dreams and think of the impossible). Herein lies the irony - while I photograph people horribly, am most inspired to be my usual self while writing about people. Well, since writing is the order of the day right now, here's a toast to all the interesting creatures ambling across the hallway at the departure gate.
The chic-chick - I am a guy, a chick has to be the first living thing I will notice, so spare me the judgmental shake of the head. Book in hand, with a bookmark almost midway, clearly thoughtfully placed there to give the impression she has been poring over the rather gripping issues of the novel for quite some time now and is totally entranced by the author's style and delivery. Sporadic mobile checks in case the phone magically went into silent mode and she missed a call or a message, even more irregular is the frequency with which she opens the book at the bookmarked page and completely unbelievable the way she flips a page in the time by which it is humanly possible to be have read only 2 sentences! I don't blame her in any way for putting up a front, don't we all. Am not a saint myself with earphones in my ears pretending to be listening to some heavy metal when what's really playing is Gravity by John Mayer. ;)
The wannabe-chic-chick - These variety come in a close second to the above category, much like the cheap Nike knock-offs you can easily get hold of at the Customs Good shops. There are a few elementary mistakes these amateurs make in trying to be a part of the "elite gang". Firstly, unlike the chic girls, who make sure their book seems ribbed at the edge and used, these girls carry around a brand new book without bothering to give it a look of ownership, a dead giveaway to even the most ignorant of observers. Second, they buy themselves coffee at the Lipton outlet - blasphemy, as a chic-chick you are allowed to only be sipping at coffee that has a brand clearly showing on the outside of the cup and the least you can settle for is CCD, no offence to the brand intended. The list goes on but one significant piece of information they miss out on is the shoes - chic-chicks don't need to flaunt good shoes - its all about comfort. They know guys look at only the face and well elsewhere, so might as well be comfy with the feet and give them their well-deserved rest. The wannabes fail to understand that and want to present themselves as the complete package in the process losing out as they look more clumsy than raunchy trying to stabilise themselves on the heels.
The banungi-main-Miss-India - I do not know where the innocence we used to associate with childhood went, but it just feels like my generation missed out on what the new gen-X or gen-Y whatever they call themselves, now considers as "hip'n'happening". I have right opposite me a young girl of not more than 12 years of age wearing what would be deemed as censorable by Ms. Asha Parekh if she ever got into moral policing of the society. It is an age of Westernisation, agreed. We have gone beyond our reservations against women's liberties, agreed. But there is that very fine line between liberation and outright disobedience. Grace and shyness is what makes our women and girls ever so fragile and effervescent in their essence. Am not an orthodox believer in women's suppression, but I am one of those who still thinks that the sexiest garment ever to adorn the female form remains the saree. I am one of those who believes that 12 is too young an age to let your daughter flaunt almost half her belly to on-looking middle-aged men, more interested in that exposed skin than the innocence that sprinkles around as she playfully plays throwball with her younger brother. There is a time when she would want to glamourise and accessorise, but this is not the age. Hell 12 is not even allowable age to enter the beauty pageant. People must have some sense of cognisance to have placed that rule into effect! ;)
The arranged-marriage couple - Being at the turn of my life when am being pushed into the whirlpool of arranged marriages more and more vehemently by my mom and dad, I probably seek out couples I can judge and measure for myself the feasibility of getting into such a predicament. The husband, sitting cross-legged, usually the left over the right, newspaper in hand, flipped over to the business page, no longer is sports the mainstay of the paper, deeply engrossed at a weird angle as if with invisible specs on the tip of his nose. The wife, sitting in a slouched position, usually to his right, and preferably at the corner seat or an empty seat between her and the next passenger, bored out of her wits, looking at her nails if from a city or mostly at her feet if from a smaller town. Hardly any words are exchanged between the two, except for when the wife tries to make a vain attempt at small talk quoting a mildly objectionable remark from one of the relatives they had visited over the weekend or a common friend who was getting involved with something dicey. The husband lets go of the paper only when the final boarding call comes through, leaving the wife to lead the way and trailing behind close to her almost stepping on her flat sandals, over-protective as if every guy with spiked up hair and a laptop listening to music and typing away frantically is a stalker out there to molest his wife!
Final boarding call for the Jet Airways flight to Mumbai .. the rest will come once am in Mumbai .. taking notes till then! ;)
The chic-chick - I am a guy, a chick has to be the first living thing I will notice, so spare me the judgmental shake of the head. Book in hand, with a bookmark almost midway, clearly thoughtfully placed there to give the impression she has been poring over the rather gripping issues of the novel for quite some time now and is totally entranced by the author's style and delivery. Sporadic mobile checks in case the phone magically went into silent mode and she missed a call or a message, even more irregular is the frequency with which she opens the book at the bookmarked page and completely unbelievable the way she flips a page in the time by which it is humanly possible to be have read only 2 sentences! I don't blame her in any way for putting up a front, don't we all. Am not a saint myself with earphones in my ears pretending to be listening to some heavy metal when what's really playing is Gravity by John Mayer. ;)
The wannabe-chic-chick - These variety come in a close second to the above category, much like the cheap Nike knock-offs you can easily get hold of at the Customs Good shops. There are a few elementary mistakes these amateurs make in trying to be a part of the "elite gang". Firstly, unlike the chic girls, who make sure their book seems ribbed at the edge and used, these girls carry around a brand new book without bothering to give it a look of ownership, a dead giveaway to even the most ignorant of observers. Second, they buy themselves coffee at the Lipton outlet - blasphemy, as a chic-chick you are allowed to only be sipping at coffee that has a brand clearly showing on the outside of the cup and the least you can settle for is CCD, no offence to the brand intended. The list goes on but one significant piece of information they miss out on is the shoes - chic-chicks don't need to flaunt good shoes - its all about comfort. They know guys look at only the face and well elsewhere, so might as well be comfy with the feet and give them their well-deserved rest. The wannabes fail to understand that and want to present themselves as the complete package in the process losing out as they look more clumsy than raunchy trying to stabilise themselves on the heels.
The banungi-main-Miss-India - I do not know where the innocence we used to associate with childhood went, but it just feels like my generation missed out on what the new gen-X or gen-Y whatever they call themselves, now considers as "hip'n'happening". I have right opposite me a young girl of not more than 12 years of age wearing what would be deemed as censorable by Ms. Asha Parekh if she ever got into moral policing of the society. It is an age of Westernisation, agreed. We have gone beyond our reservations against women's liberties, agreed. But there is that very fine line between liberation and outright disobedience. Grace and shyness is what makes our women and girls ever so fragile and effervescent in their essence. Am not an orthodox believer in women's suppression, but I am one of those who still thinks that the sexiest garment ever to adorn the female form remains the saree. I am one of those who believes that 12 is too young an age to let your daughter flaunt almost half her belly to on-looking middle-aged men, more interested in that exposed skin than the innocence that sprinkles around as she playfully plays throwball with her younger brother. There is a time when she would want to glamourise and accessorise, but this is not the age. Hell 12 is not even allowable age to enter the beauty pageant. People must have some sense of cognisance to have placed that rule into effect! ;)
The arranged-marriage couple - Being at the turn of my life when am being pushed into the whirlpool of arranged marriages more and more vehemently by my mom and dad, I probably seek out couples I can judge and measure for myself the feasibility of getting into such a predicament. The husband, sitting cross-legged, usually the left over the right, newspaper in hand, flipped over to the business page, no longer is sports the mainstay of the paper, deeply engrossed at a weird angle as if with invisible specs on the tip of his nose. The wife, sitting in a slouched position, usually to his right, and preferably at the corner seat or an empty seat between her and the next passenger, bored out of her wits, looking at her nails if from a city or mostly at her feet if from a smaller town. Hardly any words are exchanged between the two, except for when the wife tries to make a vain attempt at small talk quoting a mildly objectionable remark from one of the relatives they had visited over the weekend or a common friend who was getting involved with something dicey. The husband lets go of the paper only when the final boarding call comes through, leaving the wife to lead the way and trailing behind close to her almost stepping on her flat sandals, over-protective as if every guy with spiked up hair and a laptop listening to music and typing away frantically is a stalker out there to molest his wife!
Final boarding call for the Jet Airways flight to Mumbai .. the rest will come once am in Mumbai .. taking notes till then! ;)
At the hawai-adda
Its been quite some time since I last opened my laptop at an airport. Its a happy-stance that I haven't felt the need to do so the last few times, more probably due to the last minute arrivals at the airport and having my name blared out on the public address system as a final call for boarding the flight. This does not necessarily imply that I have set up shop with my laptop at airports in particularly convenient circumstances. One can never forget the horrors of the 8 hour delay at Istanbul airport on my way to Venice, or the missed flight to Milan and the 5 hours spent at the freezing and rather dubious train station shivering, cursing. This time though, I must say am very relaxed, earphones popped in, some of my favourite tunes playing, still 2 hours left for the flight depart, the airport virtually empty. Only one complaint though, since I have been spoilt over the past few days, the air-conditioning isn't working here!
You might wonder at the sense of leaving for the airport almost 2.5 hours before departure. Some of people who are close to me opine that I am a control freak, well agreed, but seriously even I am not paranoid enough to leave so early on what is barely a 20-minute drive. It started at 11:14 a.m. when I got a call from Mr. Satish at the front desk (ACTUAL names have been used because I want the people referred here to know what impression they left on me, though the chance of anyone ever acknowledging the existence of this blog is remotely 0.1%).
Satish: Hullo Mr. Gupta this is Satish from the front desk.
Mr. Gupta: Well hullo Satish, good morning, how are you? (Okay fine I wasn't this polite, its just not in me to be that way, but you get the drift!)
Satish: Sir would you be checking out today?
Mr. Gupta: Yeah.
Satish: Okay sir.
Mr. Gupta: Ok, anything else or can I hang up?
Satish: Yes sir.
Mr. Gupta: Well .. umm .. fire away anytime you're ready. (I swear I DID smile 'coz I was amused, and wasn't being cynical for a change)
Satish: Sir you had asked for a complimentary drop to the airport. When do you want it?
Mr. Gupta: Why yes I did, I guess around 12:30 should be fine as my flight leaves at 2:30.
*Break. I need to explain myself here. It is not paranoia to reach the airport asap, but me being considerate of the fact that checkout is to be done around noon, which is why I asked for a drop at 12:30 and not late*
Satish: That is okay sir we understand, but your checkout is before 12, so please leave the room by then, your cab will be here at 12.
Mr. Gupta: *dumbstruck*
Satish: Ok thank you sir.
Mr. Gupta: *still dumbstruck wondering if he was just told to literally "LEAVE" the room by 12*
*Some time passes by*
Mr. Gupta: (12:02 p.m. at the front desk, handing over keys) Here you go, I'll be checking out now.
Satish: Did you drink from the bar?
Mr. Gupta: What bar?
Satish: In your room.
Mr. Gupta: You gave me an empty fridge *you dumbfuck - that wasn't said out loud*
Satish: Hmm
Mr. Gupta: Hmm? What's that supposed to mean?
Satish: Nothing sir. Did you take anything from the mini-bar - something to eat if not drink?
Mr. Gupta: Ok, I had nothing taken in or out of whatever secret corner the mini-bar was in. The secret passageway was not revealed to me nor was the entry password. *fine I did not say the secret passage line - you don't have to be SO particular as a reader - just enjoy the friggin' post!*
Satish: This is a feedback form sir, we hope you were happy with our service and will visit again
Mr. Gupta: Well on the whole I was pretty happy, especially the room. But explain something to me if you can. How many rooms do you have?
Satish: Well sir around 25 on each floor, so umm 100 and more.
Mr. Gupta: Okay, and of these how many are occupied?
Satish: Around 23.
Mr. Gupta: And how many checking out today?
Satish: I guess 4 or 5.
Mr. Gupta: So tell me my dear fellow, what are the chances of 81 different customers, all wanting separate rooms coming in at the same time and flooding your desk? While you're at it, also calculate the chances of someone wanting room number 403, which neither faces the Central mall, nor is it in one of the comfy nooks and crannies of the hotel. When you're done with the calculations, key in the amount of time required to clean up a room after checkout. To this, add the amount of electricity you save if the guest is out of the room for around half an hour. Now add the probabilities and multiply it to the two cost I just told you. That is the amount you saved by asking me to leave at 12 sharp and not a minute later. Now from this "saved costs", deduct the following one by one:
You might wonder at the sense of leaving for the airport almost 2.5 hours before departure. Some of people who are close to me opine that I am a control freak, well agreed, but seriously even I am not paranoid enough to leave so early on what is barely a 20-minute drive. It started at 11:14 a.m. when I got a call from Mr. Satish at the front desk (ACTUAL names have been used because I want the people referred here to know what impression they left on me, though the chance of anyone ever acknowledging the existence of this blog is remotely 0.1%).
Satish: Hullo Mr. Gupta this is Satish from the front desk.
Mr. Gupta: Well hullo Satish, good morning, how are you? (Okay fine I wasn't this polite, its just not in me to be that way, but you get the drift!)
Satish: Sir would you be checking out today?
Mr. Gupta: Yeah.
Satish: Okay sir.
Mr. Gupta: Ok, anything else or can I hang up?
Satish: Yes sir.
Mr. Gupta: Well .. umm .. fire away anytime you're ready. (I swear I DID smile 'coz I was amused, and wasn't being cynical for a change)
Satish: Sir you had asked for a complimentary drop to the airport. When do you want it?
Mr. Gupta: Why yes I did, I guess around 12:30 should be fine as my flight leaves at 2:30.
*Break. I need to explain myself here. It is not paranoia to reach the airport asap, but me being considerate of the fact that checkout is to be done around noon, which is why I asked for a drop at 12:30 and not late*
Satish: That is okay sir we understand, but your checkout is before 12, so please leave the room by then, your cab will be here at 12.
Mr. Gupta: *dumbstruck*
Satish: Ok thank you sir.
Mr. Gupta: *still dumbstruck wondering if he was just told to literally "LEAVE" the room by 12*
*Some time passes by*
Mr. Gupta: (12:02 p.m. at the front desk, handing over keys) Here you go, I'll be checking out now.
Satish: Did you drink from the bar?
Mr. Gupta: What bar?
Satish: In your room.
Mr. Gupta: You gave me an empty fridge *you dumbfuck - that wasn't said out loud*
Satish: Hmm
Mr. Gupta: Hmm? What's that supposed to mean?
Satish: Nothing sir. Did you take anything from the mini-bar - something to eat if not drink?
Mr. Gupta: Ok, I had nothing taken in or out of whatever secret corner the mini-bar was in. The secret passageway was not revealed to me nor was the entry password. *fine I did not say the secret passage line - you don't have to be SO particular as a reader - just enjoy the friggin' post!*
Satish: This is a feedback form sir, we hope you were happy with our service and will visit again
Mr. Gupta: Well on the whole I was pretty happy, especially the room. But explain something to me if you can. How many rooms do you have?
Satish: Well sir around 25 on each floor, so umm 100 and more.
Mr. Gupta: Okay, and of these how many are occupied?
Satish: Around 23.
Mr. Gupta: And how many checking out today?
Satish: I guess 4 or 5.
Mr. Gupta: So tell me my dear fellow, what are the chances of 81 different customers, all wanting separate rooms coming in at the same time and flooding your desk? While you're at it, also calculate the chances of someone wanting room number 403, which neither faces the Central mall, nor is it in one of the comfy nooks and crannies of the hotel. When you're done with the calculations, key in the amount of time required to clean up a room after checkout. To this, add the amount of electricity you save if the guest is out of the room for around half an hour. Now add the probabilities and multiply it to the two cost I just told you. That is the amount you saved by asking me to leave at 12 sharp and not a minute later. Now from this "saved costs", deduct the following one by one:
- The tip I would have left the guy who carried my luggage downstairs
- The tip I would have left the guy who served me well at the cafeteria all three days I asked for special food while I was ill.
- The generous donation I would have made to the fishbowl you have here labeled "Staff benefit"
- The room rent for 5 days I would have stayed here the next time am coming down in June.
- The above tips all over again.
- The donation one more time.
Now repeat these calculations multiple times over the next few months as we would be making corporate trips to Indore on a continued basis. What does the figure come out to? *short pause* Arre, you stopped calculating!
Satish: Sirrr ..
Mr. Gupta: My dear friend, irrespective of what the hotel guidelines say, always remember that you are in the service industry. Serve with a smile and keep in mind that you can forego the little nuances, if it means giving your customer a memorable experience and exceptional service. Watch Rocketsingh if you haven't already. *I think I should become brand ambassador for that movie the amount I have quoted it over this trip*
Satish: Extremely sorry for the inconvenience sir, but ..
Mr. Gupta: Never mind laddy, keep it in mind next time .. (LADDY?!?! I know, I was thinking the same too, what did I take him for, an 8 year-old boy and me a 50 year-old hag, and am not Scottish for heaven's sake!! And yes I now agree that the Rocketsingh reference was way too corny even for my style!)
Just to be clear on my stance, I ended up giving the tips and though the donation to the fishbowl wasn't generous, I made it nevertheless. The generosity was more to scare him than to actually go through with.
Now at the airport, I wonder if I was too hard on the bloke. Ah bugger, I hate afterthoughts and introspection. Its way better to just draw a blank and forget. Egad, didn't realise the crowd's grown since I started writing. Okay call for security check .. will continue after a short break ..
Sunday, May 23, 2010
J'adore Indore
Everyday, well almost, there seems to be an update of pictures and albums being shared by my friends from their trips to Goa, Bangkok, KL, or even home. The thing about photographs is you love browsing through them, even more than reading your favourite book. Its got something to do with our undying love for laziness and lack of exercising our brain! Every album I sift through, smiling, surprised and more often than not completely awestruck and mesmerised has one thing in common - people. It might seem rather mopey of me to complain every once in a while about having to go about alone every place I wander off to. Such is the irony of it all, I ended up alone on a business trip as well.
To be honest, I was not exactly on cloud nine when I got Indore in the lottery system we used at office to assign cities. I try not to be prejudiced against cities, but Indore just did not have a very welcoming ring to it. Sure it could possibly translate into an important business hub for us, but the prospect of going to a newly industrialised town of a state already lagging behind in development did not seem to do the trick. Planning to make the trip as short as possible, so that I could be part of the Mumbai madness again, I laid down a jam-packed itinerary for the next two days. Our business event well, much to the amusement of many. Rocketsingh stole the show, but that's a story for some other time. As luck would have it, the positive response generated meant I had to prolong my stay for at least 4 more days, because of the weekend in between.
I am an avid traveler, and its rather blasphemous for me to get goosebumps on the prospect of having to stay in a city on the premise of being "possibly bored". Yet here I am, a mug of coffee by the side, music playing, typing this post on a Sunday afternoon. Its cool inside, with the AC blaring and the scent of fresh lemon all around, compared to the scorching dry summer of Indore at 45 degrees on the Celsius scale. Not surprised anymore as to what I am doing inside at this hour are you? :) Due to lack of companionship on such trips, I often find solace in my writing and photography, more as a way of talking to myself than to you, dear Reader. It makes for brilliant conversation. You might bob your heads sideways at such a remark, please spare yourselves the trouble, its not meant to sound bleak. I must confess, however, I committed a mistake for this trip. I chose to not pick up my mammoth camera, a decision I have been regretting ever since Friday evening came.
A bout of tummy trouble from Friday evening's dinner that carried over to Saturday morning did not particularly cheer me up. I sulked most of Saturday morning, wondering how I'd be able to get through the painful two days of holiday without considering suicide for want of game. Chats with a couple of friends back in office, telephone conversations lasting 10 minutes were short-lived engagements. The prospective dinner date also didn't seem enticing anymore. I just lay in bed blankly switching between TV channels cursing everything I came across from mind-numbing soaps to ridiculously-misrepresented news. Logging in and out of my Gmail account didn't help much, except add to the annoyance of a few who were not particularly happy seeing "Kshitij is online" notifications pop-up on their screens every 10 seconds! It was time, I had to budge from this situation and make something of the predicament I found myself stuck in.
Picked my satchel, changed into shorts, put my sneakers on, wet my hair, left my key at the reception and wandered out into the simmering heat. It was 7 in the evening, and it still felt like the sun was overhead trying to suck every last drop of water from inside of us with a straw. I hailed a rickshaw and asked him to take me to the Sarafa market. If nothing else, always go for the famous food joints in a new city, is something I have learnt from experience, you never get disappointed. After a lengthy bargain of the graduated payment scale depending on where the rickshaw driver would drop me off at the market I finally got moving. Now the unique feature of Indore traffic is that irrespective of the number of wheels on your vehicle, your average speed hovers around 20 kmph, not because of traffic jams, but as an understanding people here have established by choice.
So after a rather lengthy and tiring rickshaw ride, I was finally standing at Rajwada, which equated to 30 bucks as per the agreement with the driver. He zoomed off as a traffic policeman came charging towards him yelling to move away from the building's entrance. Like any other tourist, my first instinct was to look up at an angle of 45 degrees to the ground to get a feel of the surroundings. Another fun fact about Indore - buildings here suffer from stunted growth, hardly any grows beyond 3 storeys, so for a bloke of height 5 feet 7 inches, 45 degrees was quite a stretch, and all I ended up seeing was towering lamp posts and haywire wiring. It wasn't difficult to spot the entrance to one of the most busy streets of Indore at night time, so I ambled slowly towards the noise and brightly illuminated street.
As I approached the first few shops, I was greeted with shouts of "side ho be andhe", "hat hat hat abbe hattttt" and the Mumbaiyya "smooch sound" as bicycles and motorbikes squeezed by in a lane which was far too narrow for even three people to walk side-by-side. I was amazed and completely dazzled by the brilliant colours on display in this little street - the yellows of poha, the light browns of gulab jamuns, the whites of rabri, the reds of chutneys, all adding to an aroma that would tingle your senses! Fun fact #3 about Indore - NEVER look away from the street you're walking on, you will be hit! Apart from the usual two lane traffic, people here have a habit of forming a single file "geisterfahrer" (German for "ghost driver") either side of the usual traffic and trampling pedestrians is their favourite sport. After being rammed into by two bicycles, I reached Vijay Chaat House and opened up the small paper chit on which I had scribbled down what to have and preferably where. "Khopra pattice" it read against Vijay Chaat House. I have a penchant for trying out new cuisine, but unfortunately my tummy has an affinity for trouble, so I had to first check what exactly was I getting into.
A small shop with no place to sit and people regularly ordering stuff, knowing the rates, handing over change, what were my chances of squeezing past them and asking patiently, what exactly the khopra pattice was and how much was it worth. I took out a 10er, waved it at one of the guys and ordered one. A sumptuous blend of mashed potato and finely ground coconut fried into a small ping-pong ball, the pattice simply melted in my mouth, with an after-taste of tangy chutney. I had worked up an appetite by now as I went in for another round. Bidding adieu to the considerate guy handing over the food to me having realised I was an outsider, I moved forward to check off the next item on the list - Joshi restaurant. A restaurant, here? As it turns out, not a restaurant but an upgrade of the usual mobile junk food vendor, "Joshi dahi-wada dhaba" had been in business for several generations. What makes such specialty places a delight to visit is the warm welcome you receive and the eagerness to display their art with food. So while I ordered a "bhutte ka khees" - a concoction of powdered corn and grated coconut lined with minced tomatoes and onion, sprinkled with a tangy spice and coriander leaves - Joshi ji tossed up a plate of dahi wada for me. When I say tossed one up, I mean he literally tossed it up in the air. Jugglery, apparently, is a genetic trait in the family. Onlookers stood in awe, locals most of them, as they watched him swerve the plate full of curd in the air and sprinkle one spice or the other as it landed right in the palm of his hand before being spun into the air one more time. For these locals this sight was a part of their daily routine, yet every time they'd stop by, the amazement in their eyes would be afresh. Gobbling down the delicacies I listened intently as he narrated stories of his childhood, legends of his forefathers, how they had served in royal courts and been renowned for their talent in cookery. The enthusiasm in his stories and preparation was infectious. People who knew the stories by heart, joined in, as they kept prompting him to tell me the one where his grandfather cooked for the Viceroy, the one where they cooked a meal for 500 people in a matter of 2 hours, the one with his great-grandfather coming up with a cure for fever by accident stumbling upon a recipe he was trying out. Okay, some of his stories were just too fantastic to be true, but where is the harm in giving an elated man who loves his job a clap of appreciation even if he glorifies it just a little! I was almost full, burped out, and took Joshi ji's leave, promising to come back again before leaving for Mumbai. I ended up having fruit rabri and matka kulfi on my way back, before getting on to a rickshaw lest I burst my tummy out of gluttony. The ride back to the hotel was equally slow as the one from it.
Entered my room, changed into my night clothes, and cozily nestled into my bed, put my specs on and sat up half way with a book in hand, picking up from where I had left it the day I left for Indore. On page 95 I slid the bookmark in, smiled at the fun I had in the evening thinking being alone here isn't all that bad after all and slid off into deep slumber with VH1 playing on the TV and the dim light on the other side of the bed still on.
Tuesday, May 04, 2010
The Ostrich Effect
God gifted us a mind of our own. It is truly marvellous how we can bend reality to our will by a simple thought. If “understanding” is the most valuable asset we associate with our cognitive abilities, “denial” is by far the strongest. In Calvin’s fantastic adventures, a magician’s illusions and a schizophrenic’s imagination we find elements of “escapism”, yet none personifies the true essence of absolute ignorance we lead our lives in. It’ll-probably-disappear-if-I-look-the-other-way underlines our existence, the way of life that has made it easy for us to forego so much. I won’t preach, for that we have church. I won’t plead; it’s what Greenpeace and the like do best. I won’t mock either; your mirror’s doing a pretty good job towards that end. I will, however, relate to you a string of unrelated events that possibly triggered off this post, or at least had something to do with the motivation to write after such a long time.
A-rupee-a-day-keeps-the-guilty-conscience-at-bay Two trains of thought have prevailed ever since begging for alms became a way of life for the destitute. While some argue that giving alms to the poor only demeans their existence further and encourages others to follow suit, others pacify their sense of duty to society by dropping in a few coins. The louder the clang in the rather empty bowl, the more you contribute to your account of “good deeds” with God feeling content of having helped out someone with an amount you might have squandered off on an irrelevant piece of gum. Applause. Honestly, I laud anyone who can pacify their conscience thinking they have improved someone’s life by dropping in some change for want of either getting rid of them at the traffic signal or giving in to their million pleas.
When I pulled out a 10er and handed it over to the boy sweeping the train along with the half finished 5-star in my hand, I invited a lot of stares, judgemental ones. A middle-aged woman snorted in disapproval clearly showing where her allegiance lay amongst the two schools, while another young professional smirked dismissing the act as a pretence of “Godliness in man”, a school girl stood awestruck at the proposition of someone just casually handing over a piece of chocolate to a stranger. Amongst them stood a stooping old man, clinging on to the side rail tightly to keep from falling over, wrinkled and beaten down by the April heat. He simply nodded and smiled, raising his imaginary hat in appreciation. I smiled back. That was the best after-taste of a 5-star I ever had.
Does-he-qualify-to-take-this-seat I might be tooting an old horn here, but spare me for being repetitive. First class, local train to Borivali, fairly empty, a middle-aged man fights his way through the seamless crowd on the platform to crawl in. He takes a shoddy piece of cloth that was surely intended to be a kerchief, gives it swish with the left, and dabs his face, trying to wipe the sweat off. Damp already, the rag is hardly of any use except for transferring the beads of sweat into a thin film. The droopy eyes examine the entire coach, squinting, blinking in quiet desperation. Clutching on to a dark blue pouch with papers sticking out he holds fast to the side rail trying hard not to tip over as the fast local whistles past Santa Cruz station on towards Andheri. He is not frail, just tired: beaten. All four corners of the seats, from round the corners of their eyes look up, trying to judge in their own way if the stranger is “old enough to qualify” as someone you ought to get up and give your seat to. Here’s what probably goes on inside in their heads:
- Colour of hair – black with streaks of grey – CHECK
- Type of clothes – plain shirt with tailored trousers – CHECK
- Shoes – Unpolished wicker shoes cracking at more than 2 places – CHECK
- Ability to hold on without falling – managing, but doubtful - CHECK
- Amount of luggage – just a small pouch – REJECTED
The moment one of the criteria qualifies for a “rejected” it becomes reason enough for them to simply sigh, give a little shake of the head, and continue picking their noses leaving the stranger standing there, waiting to get off at Malad.
A-straight-face-is-best-served-with-a-blank-stare-into-nothingness Most people I come across, unfortunately, are masters of pulling off a straight face in wake of an awkward moment where they are most likely to come out with two donkey ears. Consider an auto-rickshaw driver who knowingly took the longer route to reach some place and I caught him in the act and pointed it out to him, all he’d do is stoop a little, look into the rear view mirror, measure up the level of annoyance I have with him, realise it ain’t much and there’s nothing much I can do about it and simply look away after staring at me for 10 seconds. As if that is going to pacify me!
I order a dish with chicken that is supposed to come out sliced and marinated in a sumptuous sauce garnished with herbs. What arrives is a concoction of diced prawn floating in an oily gravy and a side helping of bread. It took me 10 seconds to simply get beyond the initial lack of comprehension of how that could be even remotely close to what I wanted. When my eyes meet the waiter’s, and he realises the goof-up, the smile goes, the sparkle turns into a stare as he looks deeper into my eyes with that trademark straight face. What is he expecting –play dumb and hope that I’d start feeling uneasy and stick with the dish and not create a ruckus at the restaurant or to magically make me FORGET what I ordered? The audacity!
In every walk of life, it has struck me, something catches your attention which tweaks an aspect of the way you live life. I know not if these events did the trick for me, but for all I care, they were enough for me to get back to writing. Disconnected though it may seem, it is what I intended it to be. We love sticking our heads into the sand and hope or rather imagine that what we do is never really observed, that if we ignore strongly and long enough it just won’t matter anymore and magically disappear. We just might have taken “aal izz well” a little too seriously! ;-)
Monday, February 08, 2010
eye spy with my lil i
Its not enough for me to be a narcissist calling myself God, and having my name stored in my friends' phonebook God, so I must make you endure the pain of having to go through a few quirky observations I made digging through dinner.
I like the smell of freshly done laundry. Shoving my face into the pillow, smelling the fragrance of Ariel Springclean. When mom changes bedsheets in the morning, I have to lie down, wiggle all around making excuses to my bro that am just lying down, before I doze off into la-la land in a matter of seconds.
I love it when Snowy follows me around like the pug from the Hutch advertisement. It felt giddy when she wobbled and bumped behind me all the way to the ATM machine. The way she wags her tail off, almost creating lift-off just at the sight of me walking into the large compound in front of our place. Hate it when she has to lie down outside our door, waiting to play, but probably less than when she has to go down the steps, dejected, tired of the wait. I love Snowy for everything she is, and the way she's brought happiness into my life.
I feel satiated, having gobbled up the onions and lemons at the table even before the food arrives, much to the annoyance of my friends. I can't help it. The thought of food makes me hungry, probably the irony of life, God's way of mocking me and keeping me thin come what may!
I feel proud of the fact that I can shed a tear at the end of a sad book or movie, and not have to gulp down a beer mug to feel all butch again. The mark of a man, for me, is the ability to embrace his sensitive side and be comfortable about it.
I feel at my annoying best when I pain my friends' happiness to the point where they tell me to either "fuck off" or go for the much easier option of hitting me, hard. Its these moments of sheer irritation that give me my edge and define who I am.
I smile when Isha comes up with her infamous witticisms to berate me into a small grain of nothingness. Her ability to pull off statements like "Ass. Is hope." and crack me up! Love you kiddo! Muaah!
I consider my bro to be the funniest bloke ever. Period.
I do not want to make this post a prolonged thesis of my life. I do, however, want to let the world know am far from over. Things have sucked in life. Things have rocked in life. I am the maker of my own destiny, and this is who I am now.
I am glad I tried this for the first time. I hope you know me a little better now.
I think I should shut up now.
I like the smell of freshly done laundry. Shoving my face into the pillow, smelling the fragrance of Ariel Springclean. When mom changes bedsheets in the morning, I have to lie down, wiggle all around making excuses to my bro that am just lying down, before I doze off into la-la land in a matter of seconds.
I love it when Snowy follows me around like the pug from the Hutch advertisement. It felt giddy when she wobbled and bumped behind me all the way to the ATM machine. The way she wags her tail off, almost creating lift-off just at the sight of me walking into the large compound in front of our place. Hate it when she has to lie down outside our door, waiting to play, but probably less than when she has to go down the steps, dejected, tired of the wait. I love Snowy for everything she is, and the way she's brought happiness into my life.
I feel satiated, having gobbled up the onions and lemons at the table even before the food arrives, much to the annoyance of my friends. I can't help it. The thought of food makes me hungry, probably the irony of life, God's way of mocking me and keeping me thin come what may!
I feel proud of the fact that I can shed a tear at the end of a sad book or movie, and not have to gulp down a beer mug to feel all butch again. The mark of a man, for me, is the ability to embrace his sensitive side and be comfortable about it.
I feel at my annoying best when I pain my friends' happiness to the point where they tell me to either "fuck off" or go for the much easier option of hitting me, hard. Its these moments of sheer irritation that give me my edge and define who I am.
I smile when Isha comes up with her infamous witticisms to berate me into a small grain of nothingness. Her ability to pull off statements like "Ass. Is hope." and crack me up! Love you kiddo! Muaah!
I consider my bro to be the funniest bloke ever. Period.
I do not want to make this post a prolonged thesis of my life. I do, however, want to let the world know am far from over. Things have sucked in life. Things have rocked in life. I am the maker of my own destiny, and this is who I am now.
I am glad I tried this for the first time. I hope you know me a little better now.
I think I should shut up now.
Thursday, January 28, 2010
Pass me the nuts, would you?
Alcoholics are often looked down upon as vile and demented creatures, forming that ignominious stratum of society we could do without. The basis of such common hatred is founded in the dislike so cordially cultivated by the "raging non-alcoholics", who consider it beneath their value set to even smell the vapours of a wine bottle for fear of corrupting the soul and being sentenced to eternal damnation! Defamed to the point where even social drinking at times is considered taboo, us alcohol friendly lot have been judged time and again, much to our annoyance. There is simply no reprieve from the condescending eye of the mocktail-sipper bending her head slightly to the side and bobbing it sideways disapproving of every gulp of beer and sip of whisky.
It is time we gave the same people a piece of our mind! It is time we united and spoke up! Any one of us with even the slightest shred of appreciation for the spirits would know how important those little crisp nuts, or fries are to the overall sumptuousness of the drink and the mood. A nibble here and there, a sip of single malt scotch, a slight shake swirl of the glass, a sip again and a small nibble again. Imagine the grace of a dimly lit bar, you mounted on a barstool, both elbows on the counter, holding the glass between your palms, moving it from side-to-side, offering the charming girl across the counter an occasional glance. The guitar strumming in the background, a gentility in the atmosphere setting the mood to enter into a trance.
Enter, the mocktail-sipper.
They ask for a menu! The blasphemy, the indignity, the abomination of actually walking up to the bartender and making that rectangle in the air and mouthing the word "menu" without actually troubling your vocal chords! Fine. Pardonable. You just do not know your mocktails, not that you have a lot of choices anyway. That is not any of my business. Go ahead, order what you think makes you look chic enough, but don't forget the small red umbrella and cherry on the side that'll surely shrink the ego of certain parts of you not worth mentioning here. ;-)
You move to a table, with your drink, far from the madding crowd, to appreciate the live band, if not just to soak in the serenity and slowness around. The high-on-life hooting brigade follows your happiness around and decides to set up camp right next to you. The bartender very carefully places the bowl of crisp nuts right next to your drink. Ah, I missed you salty-little-drops-of-heaven! Nibble, nibble, crunch, swivel, sip, sip, nibble. As you turn away, there at the corner of your eye, a shadow approaches, with five hideous pointed shears, painted a bright pink, or a vomit-inducing white, grabbing a fist full of nuts. I slowly turn in their direction, and as if in slow motion watch the little nuggets of bliss get brutally crushed and ground between their teeth, chatting away while grinding them into mulch. I watch them in utter disgust as they grab another handful, chomping away letting out short burps, doing whatever justice they are capable of to the nuts.
Do not mistake me. I am a sharer. No qualms about people lifting food off my plate to get a quick taste. But nuts, that's a different story. Its something we alcohol-lovers cherish, something we are entitled to, and to watch a judgmental prick literally CHEW it all to waste is just heart-breaking.
So the next time you ask the guy next to you, "Pass me the nuts, would you?", remember, there just might be one who having had enough would just say, "No."
PS: The worst part is am friends with the mocktail-sippers! ;-P
It is time we gave the same people a piece of our mind! It is time we united and spoke up! Any one of us with even the slightest shred of appreciation for the spirits would know how important those little crisp nuts, or fries are to the overall sumptuousness of the drink and the mood. A nibble here and there, a sip of single malt scotch, a slight shake swirl of the glass, a sip again and a small nibble again. Imagine the grace of a dimly lit bar, you mounted on a barstool, both elbows on the counter, holding the glass between your palms, moving it from side-to-side, offering the charming girl across the counter an occasional glance. The guitar strumming in the background, a gentility in the atmosphere setting the mood to enter into a trance.
Enter, the mocktail-sipper.
They ask for a menu! The blasphemy, the indignity, the abomination of actually walking up to the bartender and making that rectangle in the air and mouthing the word "menu" without actually troubling your vocal chords! Fine. Pardonable. You just do not know your mocktails, not that you have a lot of choices anyway. That is not any of my business. Go ahead, order what you think makes you look chic enough, but don't forget the small red umbrella and cherry on the side that'll surely shrink the ego of certain parts of you not worth mentioning here. ;-)
You move to a table, with your drink, far from the madding crowd, to appreciate the live band, if not just to soak in the serenity and slowness around. The high-on-life hooting brigade follows your happiness around and decides to set up camp right next to you. The bartender very carefully places the bowl of crisp nuts right next to your drink. Ah, I missed you salty-little-drops-of-heaven! Nibble, nibble, crunch, swivel, sip, sip, nibble. As you turn away, there at the corner of your eye, a shadow approaches, with five hideous pointed shears, painted a bright pink, or a vomit-inducing white, grabbing a fist full of nuts. I slowly turn in their direction, and as if in slow motion watch the little nuggets of bliss get brutally crushed and ground between their teeth, chatting away while grinding them into mulch. I watch them in utter disgust as they grab another handful, chomping away letting out short burps, doing whatever justice they are capable of to the nuts.
Do not mistake me. I am a sharer. No qualms about people lifting food off my plate to get a quick taste. But nuts, that's a different story. Its something we alcohol-lovers cherish, something we are entitled to, and to watch a judgmental prick literally CHEW it all to waste is just heart-breaking.
So the next time you ask the guy next to you, "Pass me the nuts, would you?", remember, there just might be one who having had enough would just say, "No."
PS: The worst part is am friends with the mocktail-sippers! ;-P
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